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Body of Missing Woman Found, Suicide Suspected

The search for 61-year-old Maria A. Carlsen ends after her body is found off of Rte. 12 in Wauconda.

 

The search for a missing North Barrington woman ended in tragedy Thursday when her body was found after an apparent suicide.

Family members told the sheriff's deputies they had not heard from Maria A. Carlsen, 61, since around 2 p.m. Feb. 13, according to the Lake County Sheriff's Office.

A woman notified police that she had seen someone matching the description of Carlsen around 1 p.m. Monday off of Rte. 12. The woman didn't think of calling authorities until she read the reports of the missing woman. The call came at 11 a.m. Thursday and a search of the area began immediately.

Carlsen's body was found in the culvert off of Rte. 12 in unincorporated Wauconda. The Sheriff's Office said she died of a suspected suicide. Two bottles of anti-depressants were found with the body, according to Lake County Sheriff Mark Curran.

Investigators have learned that Carlsen was scheduled to take a limousine to O’Hare airport on Tuesday morning in order to fly to Boca Raton, FL, to be with her husband.  When the limousine arrived at her residence, Carlsen’s bags were packed but she and her vehicle, a 2010 black 5 Series BMW, were missing from the residence.  Investigators later recovered her vehicle from the parking lot of JD’s restaurant located at Route 12 and Old Rand Road in unincorporated Wauconda.

According to Lake County Deputy Chief Greg Manis, Carlsen's family had been worried that she might harm herself after she went missing.

An autopsy from the Lake County Coroner's Office will be done but won't be ready for a few days.

Related Topics: Lake County Sheriff's Office and carlsen

DaddyO

2:53 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Seems almost too easy to close this one, huh?

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Ms. Thinker

12:13 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

How can they possibly call it a suicide? Even just reading the facts, it looks like someone tried to make it LOOK like a suicide and it is really a murder. Are they really not going to investigate this any further? This happened VERY close to where I work.... the lack of diligence on the officers' part makes me worry. Plus she was like 3 miles from home... It took them 3 days with helicoptors and bloodhounds to find her OUT IN THE OPEN in less than a 5-mile radius from her home??? Come ON...

qui me amat

2:58 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Something just doesn't sound right. Why would they find her in a culvert if she committed suicide?

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Darren Rivchin

3:05 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Daddy o one would think this story line and charges will ensue fairly quickly. Im thinking in the next couple hours. How ever It might take a few days though ... But REALLY ????

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Jodie

3:07 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

It sounds fishy to me. She was probably murdered and made to look like a suicide.

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Ms. Thinker

12:14 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

Exactly... everyone I've talked to thinks that... except the police?!?!? What are they thinking? They should be looking for suspects

Ellen

3:14 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Can't imagine why a person would leave a nice warm car to kill themselves in a cold culvert. Not by downing pills anyway.

And, if you haven't done an autopsy, why name the cause? Guess that's what the media does to get ppl's attention.

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Michael Bivona

4:36 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Ellen, "the media" isn't doing anything. We just repeated what the sheriff's office said. They said it looked like a suicide so we reported that.

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Lucy

10:21 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

I have to agree with Michael. No one said what the cause of death was. It only claims that they suspect a suicide. Obviously once the autopsy is done they will have a better idea. I don't see what is wrong with them saying what they police said it appears to be.

Ruth G.

3:16 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Yeh, that's my take on it as well. Why would anyone commit suicide and do it in a cold unpopulated culvert. ... Murder is more likely.

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Susan B

7:35 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

Ruth G.,& Ellen, Tell me, how many people have you heard of that commit suicide in a "warm" "populated" location?? I can't believe all the stupid comments on here...wow!!

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Ellen

2:22 pm on Saturday, February 18, 2012

Well Susan, oh wise one, there was that guy who killed himself in his car at Busse Lake.

And, most ppl who kill themselves with pills do it in their own homes or a motel room.

You're not the only one who can't believe some of the stupid comments here. Not to mention the pointless comments such as yours.

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Ms. Thinker

12:16 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

Susan B, everyone means, this is a highly unlikely way for a wealthy, older woman to commit suicide. Women are likely to commit/attempt through less violent routes than men (men - guns/knives, women - pills) but to do it outside, at night, in a ditch, away from home and her car, when her house was empty and she was already alone, and with her bags packed for a vacation the next day... THAT'S what they mean. It does NOT sound like a suicide, but like a badly planned "suicide set-up" that was really a murder. Some cops need to do a LOT more investigation...

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Ms. Thinker

12:17 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

also props to Ellen's comment.

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Lucy

10:27 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

I agree with others that think it's a strange place to kill yourself. Especially since she took pills. To me a suicide outdoors would be using a weapon, jumping off a building, etc. If she was planning on killing herself why pack your bags? It's very possible she did kill herself but to drive to a side of a road, take a couple bottles of pills, then sit there till you die is odd, especially for someone her age. Why not just do it at home? Did she not want anyone to find her? At that point you would think she wouldn't care, she'd be gone. This is a tough one.

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Lucy

10:28 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Sorry Ms. Thinker, I didn't read your post but you summed it up much better than I did. Great post.

Beth Stephenson Thompson

3:23 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

I happen to believe that this is a suicide. I know a couple of people that successfully commited suicide and where they did it and how is just as bizzare and telling of someone severely depressed and not thinking clearly. My thoughts and prayers are with the family now.

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Ms. Thinker

12:19 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

If she was that depressed,
1. why would the family knowingly leave her alone
2. whose pills went missing and they didn't notice???
3. why would she take the effort of driving away and walking into a ditch/field in the middle of the night to kill herself when her house was already empty
4. why was she packed for a vacation? with valentines day cards written?
5. why did she bring her purse but not her favorite jacket or her phone?

Maria G. Eugenis

3:58 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

She was packing her bags to go to Florida where her husband was supposed to be.
Seems to me, if she had reserved a limo to go to the airport, I believe when the
doorbell rang, she was abducted.
I agree, with the person who said why would go to a culvert to commit suicide.
Maria Eugenis

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Darren Rivchin

4:13 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Maria , the strange thing is why would this ladies bags be by the door the day before she was supposed to leave ? Possibly 2 days before she was to leave as She was seen on Monday supposedly? If the Limo driver saw the bags they had to be by the door or close to it. No one packs bags and puts them by the door days before a trip. hours yes days no.
This will be uncovered very soon. What ever is found it is a tragedy and very sad. Pray for the family Mrs Carlsen herself.

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Catherine

8:53 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

Darren, I don't think the article meant the bags were packed and waiting outside the door. From the articles I've read, I interpreted that to mean they were packed and next to the door on the inside of the house. My mother packs her bags 2 or 3 days before any trip, and takes them to the door the day before, so to me that is not something odd.

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Ms. Thinker

12:20 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

Yes, people do pack days before trips... or a day before... or the night before... but not people who are planning on killing themselves. THAT is the weird thing about this.

Ben Dreyer

4:30 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

I don't know what to say. Typically, it is a guy who would go off to a cold woody area and blow his head off with a shot gun and make a mess to be never forgotten. A woman will typically take sleeping pills because they want to be found still beautiful. I believe this was murder. Even if they do an autopsy, do they honestly think the killer(s) would not have forced her to take the pills before killing her. I wonder if her husband did not have her killed, made a report about her harming herself and he looks innocent since he was in Fl. Typically, men will run far away to avoid accusations or they will be super close in order to keep their guilty conscience at ease as they need to know all of the details. BMW5, sounds like, someone had a lot of life insurance on her. However, the insurance would have to be in place for 2 years before it would pay out on a suicide. A criminal only have a few minutes to commit a crime, but there is forever for the truth to come out. Sound familiar Browns Chicken Massacre??

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Ms. Thinker

12:21 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

Very true. I thought, immideately, well it's not the husband, he was out of town. But keep in mind, they were very wealthy. Who's to say he didn't hire someone else to do it, then distance himself from the crime scene? HOW ARE CIVILIANS LIKE US THINKING THIS AND THE POLICE ARE CALLING IT A SUICIDE???

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Lucy

10:32 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Ms. Thinker, maybe they are waiting to get the autopsy back? They may be thinking what we are thinking, I hope. I wonder about the woman that reported seeing her by the side of the road, was Maria alone.

Darren Rivchin

4:39 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Many insurance companies will not pay out on a suicide. It is leaning towards murder. Very very sad... not what God had planed for us.... Pray for this poor lady and her family.

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Claudia Lenart

4:47 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Lots of theories. However, the sheriff's office responded to a report that the woman was seen wandering down Rte. 12, by herself. Lead investigator George Manis assumed it was suicide. The coroner is investigating whether suicide or accidental.

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Ellen

4:31 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

They should decide what it is before stating what they think it might be. This is so unprofessional.

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Ms. Thinker

12:22 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

Lead investigator needs to think before opening his mouth to the media.

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Lucy

10:43 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

They are not saying it is definitely suicide, they are saying it's suspected. News articles and reporters always say that in their stories. "He died of an apparent gun shot wound" or "he had an apparent heart attack". If they didn't give some indication about what they felt she died of, then people would probably be complaining that they aren't saying enough. It's not unprofessional. Unprofessional would be saying that is WAS a suicide, if it wasn't. They aren't saying that.

Dan Arenov

4:56 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

sounds like she had enough of this world and that her trip to her husband wasnt going to make things better.

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Ms. Thinker

12:23 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

it does not sound like that at all. it sounds like murder. and it's very scary to anyone who lives or works in that area, especially any female... i hope the cops wise up and start looking for suspects ASAP.

Darren Rivchin

4:57 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Yes many theories. I did not see this one from Claudia above.... the police responded
to a report she was seen wondering. So they picked her up and did what with her? Or perhaps it was a call to go with the cover up ? If they really responded to a call of her WALKING down RTE 12 it would have taken 1 minute to get there . did they talk to her? See her? I kind of doubt it... Maybe because she was not there ?

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Lucy

10:43 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Did you read the article??? It explains right there that they received the call AFTER she was already dead. The woman saw Maria on Monday but didn't call the police until Thursday, 3 days later. She didn't put 2 and 2 together until she read about the missing woman. So regardless of how long it took police to get there they were already a couple days too late.

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Ms. Thinker

12:20 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

also, why did police not give any attention to the call of a woman walking down 12 around the same time that she talked to her family? where was her cell phone? was she actually there? and they had dogs and helicopters searching for 3 days when it was like 3 miles from her home and 2 from her car --- like right in between..... and they only found her once this "tip" got called in... in fact, they found her RIGHT AWAY after that... I know; I work nearby... it just does not add up

Stephanie Kronberger

5:34 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

ok....... just so you ALL know...... a combination of zanex and seroquil would make ANYONE do weird things. IE, seroquil can make people walk, talk, eat, drive and all kinds of stuff and yet the person won't ever remember it. How do I know??? Because I take seroquil. I highly doubt she left her car, walked to where they found her and THEN took the pills. More than likely she drove around,,,,,,fighting with her depression,,,, her inner demons,,,,,,, parked,,,,, took pills and once they started to hit her left her car. Before you make stupid comments........... make sure you understand that A) you weren't there......... B) her FAMILY can see the comments and may be hurt by your words and C) if you don't know how the medication can affect people.......... SHUT YOUR DAMN PIE HOLE!!!

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Ellen

4:29 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

Right back at ya Stephanie!

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Ms. Thinker

12:25 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

Do you take too much Seroquil? If not, how would you know it does that?
Medication certainly can affect people... but different articles report different things. Not one mentioned that specific medication. One said anti-anxiety and another rx from a relative, one said two bottles of anti-depressants... We don't have our facts clear, but what is clear is that the facts clearly do not add up. Regardless of the medications, she was packed and ready to leave for a Valentine's day vacation, with cards written to her loved ones... among many other things that just don't fit with this being an intentional suicide... it sounds like a murder.

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Lucy

10:48 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Okay, you started out nice and ended up being rude. No where in this article did it say what type of pills were found. Secondly, we are just talking amongst ourselves and trying to figure it all out. We are not trying to hurt her family. No one here is calling her names or making fun of her. Besides, do the rules for comments say that we can't write the comments we did? I would think they'd be taken down by now if they were against policy rules. I do agree with you that she could have taken the pills prior to getting into her car but seriously would she hold onto the bottles the whole time and let them lay next to her if she took them earlier?

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Ms. Thinker

12:21 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

also, most of us that seem to care / be worried it's a murder are (gasp!) female. yeah, i said it. and the cops are doing what??? an autopsy... not an investigation...

Dan Arenov

7:09 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

stephanie, did THIS article list the medications you mention? no. the people commenting didnt have the information you had.. please take your pill and shut your own pie hole.

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Fred Fotts

10:20 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Why didn't she travel with her family? Why did her family leave her if they were afraid she would hurt herself?

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Ellen

4:32 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

Well, I saw a little about this on TV and they showed her home. Wealthy ppl often travel without each other.

And, I think the pills were mentioned on TV too and they said a water bottle was found close to the body. It said one bottle of pills was in her name but the other one wasn't.

Uptown girl

1:14 am on Friday, February 17, 2012

This is all very hard to read. The media was way too quick to speculate and have botched up a number of facts. In the end all I can say is that I hope some answers come out soon because an accidental death and suicide leave very different emotions on those who loved her. The world has forever changed for many without Maria Carlsen. I will miss her and remember her always.

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Kirk J

7:15 am on Friday, February 17, 2012

Come on now, this sort of thing happens all of the time in DC. There was a federal informant a few years ago that was about to testify but couldnt take the pressure anymore so he garroted himself from behind and then shot himself with a shotgun in the chest at close proximity (not point blank) and the coronor ruled it a suicide. Remeber, the bigger the lie, the more people will believe it.

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Ms. Thinker

9:11 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

very interesting comment... its sad that's how our world works but many people are corrupt. :(

Jennifer Smith

7:15 am on Friday, February 17, 2012

@ Stephanie, great feedback that needs to absolutlely be considered. While I fully appreciate the freeeom and interaction the internet allows.. I willl never understand folks posting such theories without absolutely considering the family and loved ones that would see them. I have a relationship with the family and as I read all of this it holds so heavy on my heart I could not imagine what it would feel like for her daugther, granddaughters, husband etc. Please think outside of yourself posters!

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Ellen

4:39 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

I think we have become used to ppl on the Internet thinking they have all the answers with few if any facts.

What is disgraceful is the police and news media making statements that draw ppl in and make them believe that the world cares about their theories.

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Bucephalus

9:35 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

I think we have become used to Ellen thinking she has all the answers with few if any facts.

What is disgraceful is Ellen making statements that draw ppl in and make them believe that the world cares about her theories.

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Lucy

10:51 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Because we are human and we are curious and like to discuss stories as a group. Why would a family member even want to come to a comment section anyway? If my loved one just died a horrific death I certainly wouldn't be surfing the net, reading comments. If that is the case then comments should be barred from being made. Or the rules should state that no theories should be posted.

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Ms. Thinker

12:23 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

I think that people like Bucephalus who need to COPY Ellen exactly to inssult her are wasting time... when people like Ellen and others actually CARE about what happened, and realize that the police and media have made this a mess and made it hard to tell truth from lie...

Grayslake Gal

8:24 am on Friday, February 17, 2012

So sad. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. If an overdose is involved, yes, irrational behavior is to follow after meds become absorbed.

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Robert A Smith

9:23 am on Friday, February 17, 2012

Those of us who suffer from things like depression or anxiety are aware that weird behavior can ensue. Most people don't think about it, but travel is a stress or. We don't know what her personal life was like in the weeks prior, and we don't know if she harbored any fears about flying. There are so many unanswered questions yet to be known. I say let's be kind to the family and not put a bunch of unknown theories into place that this woman's family might read. There've already been a couple of comments made by people familiar with the family regarding this. Leave the detective work to the pros handling her case.

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Ms. Thinker

9:16 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Those of us who suffer from depression or anxiety (of which there are many, and many of us are women) know what the possible side effects of those medications are if taken incorrectly. Most of us know when our depression gets really bad... and so do family members. They notice differences in behavior... And also, are there detectives working on the case? I had not noted that anywhere. I was saying there definitely should be detectives... because the average police officer has less education than a sophomore in college... yet they have so much "wisdom" and control... come on people, use your own minds. Hopefully they DO put pros on her case... and also, it's spelled "stressor". May the woman's family mourn as they rightfully should, and may she rest in peace, but they deserve to know the truth, too. I mean no disrespect to her or her family. I just care because this happened so close to where I live and work... it's scary because, I repeat, it does NOT seem like a suicide.

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Ms. Thinker

9:46 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Also, most of us don't commit suicide. There is a marked gender difference in suicide ATTEMPTS and suicide SUCCESS rates: it's nearly 4 to 1. Women are more likely to attempt suicide (supposedly as a cry for help - meaning they are usually "found" or "stopped" in time to save their lives) and men usually succeed (aka blowing their head off in the middle of a field at night when no one can stop them, without telling anyone anything beforehand...) if anything, this is a lot closer to how a man might kill himself, and if she indeed was attempting, she probably would not have done it in that manner.

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Lucy

10:57 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Where is it written that human beings can't discuss a situation with one another? It's human nature. I don't feel that the comments are being mean to the family. If the Patch doesn't like what we are writing I will let them dictate what can or can't be said. I feel terrible for this woman and curiosity has got my mind going but I also like to discuss situations and current events etc. with others. I don't think it's right for others to come here and tell people what they should or should not be saying.

Joemomma

10:43 am on Friday, February 17, 2012

You are all whacked. Stop watching CSI and get a life

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Ms. Thinker

9:48 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

says the person who cared enough to log in/create a password to say that...

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Lucy

11:00 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

So true Ms. Thinker. I have never watched CSI, I also have a wonderful life. Crime and mystery/real life interests me and it always has. It affects me deeply too. I can't imagine what victims go through in these situations. I read a story that touches me in what ever way and I feel the need to comment. Why is that so wrong?

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Ms. Thinker

12:25 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

me too Lucy! not one episode of CSI... i just care, cuz this hit close to home... and it doesn't make sense. i think we agree on quite a few things

srain71

3:43 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

Allow the Investigators to do their job, before jumping to TV Drama conclusions. Contrary to popular belief, the police, far more often than not, get it right. Our prayers are with the family, who is left with picking up the pieces.

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Ellen

4:43 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

If investigators were doing their jobs they wouldn't be blabbing about what they think it MIGHT be.

Many of us don't think the pros are very pro.

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Lucy

11:02 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

You seriously think that people commenting on an article in the Patch are getting in the way of investigators?? It's a comment section, what do you expect?

Ellen

4:22 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

@Michael
We expect the media to be a little smarter than the police. Andl if nothing else, the media should have known it was inappropriate for the police to say what it MIGHT be.

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Nick

4:31 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

@Ellen
It is not the reporter's job to judge what is appropriate for police to say. The reporter's job is to report what was said by the police.

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Ellen

2:27 pm on Saturday, February 18, 2012

@Nick And it is for me to tell you what I think about what you do.

Jen O

8:32 pm on Friday, February 17, 2012

I work in the pharmaceutical industry. Until toxicology reports and a full investigation is done no speculations of cause of death should have been said, especially for the families sake. Both theories could be right but no one knows now so my prayers go out to her family and friends, either way it's a sad loss no matter how she passed. P.S. Stephanie, prescription drugs effect people differently. I have patients where Seroquel has no effect on them at all and other's it makes them severely ill, so just because it makes you feel one way does not mean the same way for another. It also depends on mg and how much a person has taken, and or was alcohol a factor? You just never know, so before getting defensive let's wait and see what the reports say and give the family the respect they deserve.

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R10¢

1:45 pm on Saturday, February 18, 2012

My prayers r with d family......

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R10¢

1:47 pm on Saturday, February 18, 2012

If there is foul play I pray it all comes 2 light.....R.I.P. Maria

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a. f.

6:12 pm on Saturday, February 18, 2012

Dear Ellen,
You're ridiculous. Did you respond to the crime scene? No, you didn't. Are you a detective? No, you're most likely not. Maybe you should investigate all the crimes in the world since you APPARENTLY know how to solve them all. I would, personally, like to know how you figure out how to breathe on a day to day basis. Have a wonderful day:)

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Ellen

2:22 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

Dear a. f.
No, I'm not a detective. I wouldn't qualify. They turn you down if you are too intelligent because they know you will become bored with the job and leave.
And you sound like you might just be one of those cops cuz you can't read well enough to know that I wasn't trying to solve anything. Quite the opposite. You're the one not getting enough oxygen to your brain!

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Ms. Thinker

9:54 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

@a. f.
Dearest foolish a. f. (don't make me guess what that stands for haha). People breathe by way of the autonomic nervous system, a subsection of the nervous system which governs many bodily functions that we literally don't have to think about at all... But if you think anyone has to "figure out" how to breathe, you might actually need some educating... or at least find better things to do than insult people who are actually using their minds and their words for caring about serious issues. If your mind just can't fathom anything better to do, just... hold your breath! See what happens. Thanks :) Have a great one!

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Ms. Thinker

9:59 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Dude... The autonomic nervous system, which governs breathing, also controls other visceral motor activities - also known as involuntary - i.e., your thinking, apparently. Maybe you could try effectively using your somatic nervous system, which governs voluntary movements, to refrain from typing idiotic statements in the future?

missmydaddy

1:58 am on Sunday, February 19, 2012

@a.f., I LALALALALOVEEEEE UR RESPONSE TO DETECTIVE GADGET AKA "ELLEN"! My thoughts and prayers are with the Carelson family.

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Ms. Thinker

11:51 am on Sunday, February 19, 2012

I work only a few miles from where the body was found. I was actually at work at the time the police were investigating the area on thursday, and needless to say, it caught everyone's attention. We found out some facts: she was found missing tuesday morning, she was supposed to catch a flight that day to be with her husband on Valentines day, her bags were packed and Valentine's day cards were written to everyone she loved. Her car was found at a bar that she was not seen at... and she died (apparently) in a field, after wandering down the highway at night... I know people from the neighborhood she was from; it is a VERY wealthy community. Immediately I would think money is involved in this death in some way. Also, the police, sadly, DO NOT have excessive training in psychology and not every officer is a CSI agent... I do have a degree in psychology, and I have to say, this does NOT seem like a suicide. Her family said she may have been capable of it; she was not emotionally stable.... then why leave her alone on a holiday that people kill themselves on? (Also Xmas and Thanksgiving have high suicide rates)... And people who are about to kill themselves certainly don't stop to pack for a vacation that they are NOT going on... or write cards to their loved ones. there are usually indicators of thoughts of suicide... giving away valuable possessions, saying "goodbye".... and why would a wealthy woman about to leave on vacation kill herself 3-4 miles from home outside in the cold

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Ms. Thinker

11:56 am on Sunday, February 19, 2012

Moreso, her jacket and her cell phone were left at home, but she brought her purse with her... Cell phones have GPS trackers, first of all, and can be used to call for help. If she was driving to go "off herself," i wonder why she would first of all bring along her purse (with, I'm assuming, I.D. such as her license) but care to leave her jacket and phone at home? Wouldn't she want her family to know what happened to her and not worry? Even if she wanted to die, why no note? She wrote valentines day cards to her family, and there have been no indicators yet that those were any sort of suicidal notes... and who uses antidepressants in a dark cold field to kill herself? Especially for a woman; a wealthy woman... she could've done it at home, in bed, or in the bath... and still been found earlier. It just doesn't add up... and the police ruled it a suicide within an hour of finding her... seems like some lazy officers don't want to investigate a case with some HUGE holes in it... and I do feel bad for her family. I hope they find out who did this... because I don't believe she did it to herself, and I work close to the area, and thinking there might be a killer out there is SCARY.

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Jack H

2:51 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Ms, Thinker with all due respect I think you will find that the authorities are looking at all aspects of the case, but you are trying it in the chat forums, if you have expertise in this area than why not offer assistance to the authorities to solve what you believe is crime. It nay very well be suicide. You may never know the real reason as to what the person was thinking, but from all your posts you seem to feel you can help, son why not do so and spare the family the constant theories. They are going through enough right now. If it is a crime the authorities are not going divulge information in a poet board that might compromise their investigation.

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Ms. Thinker

9:45 pm on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

@Jack H
it's called the first amendment... freedom of speech. i am as entitled to express my opinion on this public forum as much as you or anyone else. i mean no harm or ill wishes towards the family, i am sure this is a difficult time for them. it doesn't mean i'm not entitled to care or express my thoughts. just like you. you're right; the authorities are not going to post anything here, this is a public discussion. the family is probably not reading these either. in fact, you only have to read it if you want to... so, it's up to you.

Mel

1:26 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

#1 - Life insurance policies have a "suicide clause" but this expires 2 years after the policy went into effect. Likely at her age this policy if one was purchased has met the 2 year condition
#2 - Money cannot buy happiness, we are seeing more and more wealthy persons mutilating theirselves with drugs, alcohol, etc. (so for all that believe it does, remember history continues to repeat itself)
#3 - some wealthy people live beyond their means, and not within trying to maintain that image that they are "wealthy" eventually a person can break trying to maintain this image
#4 - what ever the cause, it is a very sad day, week, month year for her family, friends and specifically children. Remember they are able to read your posts and the information whether it opinion or fact should be entered in good taste

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Michelle Finchis

1:37 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

You said it correct when you stated some lazy cop being incompotent and not even making a small effort to do just the simple thing called{your job}. Not anyone having cards filled out to love one is clinically depressed. When you are this depressed the last thing on your mind is caring enough to take the time to carefully select cards and personally address them to each individual that you are thinking of enough to be that thoughtful. Hell I'm no where near wealthy and drive a very nice car,and no way will I be leaving my nice warm ride to seclude myself in a cold concrete or metal cor

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Michelle Finchis

1:47 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

That's metal culvert! I have learned from personal experience to believe nothing tat comes out of a cop mouth. You should believe just the opposite most of the time. They hold so much power with the stroke of a pen ,but usually never uphold their oath to be true to the average citizen. I would not take this at face value and hire an outside source to do a proper investigation concerning this matter. You will only get just when you look them in the eye and let them know I don't buy this swift crap you're trying to feed me and I don't appreciate my intelligence being insulted Mr. Officer .

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Nick

9:59 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

@Bucephalus Hey. A talking horse. Cool.

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John Gotti

11:02 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

The police don't release all the information only that which they see fit. Without ”ALL” the fact its all just speculation until the autopsy is combined with everything else. Relax people more info to come on this one.

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Nick

11:23 pm on Sunday, February 19, 2012

I'm certainly not going to disagree with anybody named John Gotti. I was born at night but not last night.

friend

12:29 pm on Monday, February 20, 2012

did anyone notice that the statement said the family last spoke to maria around 2pm monday the 13th...and the tip that called into the police on thur.said that they saw a woman fitting her description walking on the highway that same day and time? ....even though it was said her cell was left behind at her home along with the packed bags?so my question is did they ever disclose how maria made or received that final call to the family member?nothing was mentioned about that call being anything out of the norm. like walking down a highway perhaps? and does anyone know if the call to the police was from a anonymous tipster or not?cause that doesnt add up..and before anyone jumps down my throat , i am not trying to stir up speculations i was just curious if anyone else observed the same...

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Ms. Thinker

9:48 pm on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

that is an interesting comment... i noticed the non sequitur myself... interesting there have not been any police investigations (that are made public yet) regarding that peculiar timing... your speculation appears to be correct. it doesn't quite add up... none of this does...

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Ms. Thinker

9:50 pm on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Also, regardless of monday, assuming her car was "dropped off" at the bar/restaurant after it closed (around 11:30), and she had already taken the medication before starting her walk down the road, wouldn't anyone notice a disoriented/stumbling woman with no jacket in february stumbling down the highway in the middle of the night? no one called it in? if it was a suicide... she might've been saved. that's another sad thing; if it really was a suicide, and if someone saw her at night stumbling down the road and called it in, police could've been there within minutes and possibly saved her life. ;(

susan

4:06 am on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

I think the family and victim are important here, not the Monday morning quarterbacking. In my job, I have seen many families deal with suicides that seem so obscure. In that process, I have also know the police to work hard to find the truth. Information is intentionally held from the public for a reason. Say if there is a suspected homicide by a family member, the best way to investigate it may be to say it appears to be self inflicted as to not make the murderer hide out and lose information that might come from that own person's mouth. All I know is, when I go to the dentist, I don't tell him how to do his job because he is the one trained to do the job, not me. I never went to dental school. I also have never seen what people are describing as a "normal" suicide. I've unfortunately been involved with so many that there is no "text book " suicide or accidental death. It is a last resort decision made by a hurting sole and it is the last action in their lives that they can control, when many have feelings of hopelessness and grief. Please respect this family and hope they themselves can find the answers they need to find peace. God bless

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Ms. Thinker

9:24 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Susan... as far as I'm concerned, there's no "textbook" murder either... and if watching movies or documentaries or reading about the Stacy Peterson case (btw her husband was a cop and she was his 4th wife, his 3rd wife also died)... suicide is a good "cover up" story. Except in this case... it's pretty unbelievable. And for someone who has supposedly been involved with so many people like this, you should know, the "sole" of your shoe is not the same thing as a hurting "soul"... And knowing a few dentists personally, I'd have to say, just because you don't tell them how to do their job doesn't mean other patients don't feel entitled to do so... even if they shouldn't. And who pays for the police to work and get all their benefits? Um... that would be US, the American people... So, they're kind of employed by us, and they are supposed to serve and protect the people. And yeah, if my dentist was about to extract a tooth without me saying it's okay, I would DEFINITELY tell him what to do; or rather what not to do. My point is, I don't understand why people keep believing this is a suicide... what person who is THAT depressed would ONLY take two empty pill bottles and an empty water bottle to a field to die? She left her purse in the car, two miles down the road... but carried pill bottles and a water bottle? Too many things are wrong with this case, and the lack of police effort is appalling. Someone is hiding something.

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Ms. Thinker

9:37 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

The police have botched up the case and are calling it a suicide : lazy police work. If this happens all the time, how safe is our country? Murderers on the loose... I don't want to pay cops to be lazy and not do their jobs. And I have every right to say so as a taxpaying American citizen.

Jack H

9:22 am on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

For what it is worth, the investigation is in the preliminary stages. They have to write something in the report, but that does mean it is a conclusion. I am sure when the Lake Counties Coroner's report comes back the authorities will dig deeper into this. As to suicide people do strange things. Some step in front of trains, some use drugs or medications, some hang themselves, or other ways. You never know what is going through a person's mind, and some of the antidepressants have a number of side effects if you do not follow the dosage correctly, or drink while taking them. Let the authorities do their job, and then go from there.

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An Beal Bocht

6:27 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

ALL speculation people! Too much grandstanding from the sidelines!! Condolences to her family. Let the police do their jobs.

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Lucy

11:09 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Coroner says no foul play. Toxicology reports are not in yet but they are saying no trauma or foul play. Very sad.

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Ms. Thinker

12:33 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

How do they know someone didn't force her through fear instead of physical force to take the pills? Like, they threatened to hurt her family? And how did it take the police 3 days to find her with dogs AND a helicopter circling around that detects body heat (apparently even after death for a few days)? Still sounds like a cover-up....

Lucy

11:19 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Something interesting I read on another site. She was spotted on Monday by this caller at around 1 pm wandering by the road. The owner of the bar where her car was found closed his bar at 11:30 Monday night and no BMW was in his lot. He saw the BMW in the lot when he arrived Tues morning. So if she was in the area of that road and that is where her body was found, how and when did her car get to the bar's parking lot sometime between midnight Monday and Tuesday morning? Unless the caller saw her Tuesday. It says family last saw her at 2pm on Monday but the caller saw her at 1 pm. COnfusing.

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Ms. Thinker

12:35 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Actually i think it said her family last spoke to her around the same time that someone saw her walking down 12... but what was that conversation? Did she call on her cell? And where was her cell phone? (It was found at home, far from her body)... It is very confusing. Even the car thing too. If she was walking during the day Monday, why did he not see the car at all until Tuesday?

Jack H

12:40 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

I really think you should give the authorities the benefit of the doubt and let them do their jobs. None of us know all the facts, and maybe there is foul play, but they need the time and pieces of the puzzle to work out what happened. It may very well be suicide, or it may not, but they have not ruled anything. All the report says is suspected and that is not Definate. I wish the family well during these trying times.

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Ms. Thinker

1:02 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

I believe it is within 72 hours of time of death the likelihood of catching a murderer decreases like 90%.... furthermore each day afterward... if so, the authorities missed their big chance to do their job right... by immediately assuming no foul play...

Darren Rivchin

9:33 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

The police and investigators already have a good idea of what happened. Im sure an announcement will be made in the next 48 hours. To get the proper people charged properly without blowing a case entails a little work. It will be handled and make headlines soon. Again our prayers are with her and family members. Terribly sad

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Lisa smith

1:09 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012

As mentioned above, anytime someone is found in this situation, the Police have to give something for the reports. If someone is found with an obvious gun shot to the head for example, they will repot "died of an apparent gun shot wound to the head". Not " the person died of a gunshot wound to the head". That is until the autopsy and investigation are complete. Yes, the cause of death may be shot to the head, however without investigation, blood level reports, etc they have no way of knowing how it happened and can not report such until ALL facts are in. Especially in a case as this, where there is no obvious signs of trauma on the outside. There are also conflicting reports that say the family feared this may happens and others that say the family is " baffled" as to where she could be or what happened. What I also find interesting ( and I could be way wrong in thinking/asking this ) but I always thought with adults they had to wait ( at least ) 24 hours to be able to report someone missing . From the reports the family say they last heard from her Monday around 2:00pm, and the limo came early Tuesday morning. I am also at a total loss as to how they did not find her until Thursday only when the "tip" came in. With all the police officers, detectives, bloodhounds, and helicopters they did not find her within a 1 mile radius of where her car was found. I agree with what Darren posted above. I feel like an anounc

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amber

1:52 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012

I cant beleive I just spent this much time reading all of these useless comments. Really. if you have the answers, why arent you on the case..McGuyvers...

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Lisa smith

2:11 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012

This article read that she died of an "apparent" suicide and Sherifs Office say " suspected " suicide. Meaning just based off of what they know and see at the scene and what they have been told by family the days before. If polce find someone who passed away with 2 bottles of prescription drugs and known to be depressed ( according to family ) what does that look like? An apparent/suspected suicide. It has not been ruled suicide.
I also dont understand how the caller said they saw someone matching Maria on Monday around 2:00, but the bar owner says her car was not there until Tuesday morning. Where was her car while she was walking around Monday afternoon. Questions questions !
If it is suicide, or murder, either way very very sad. I can't even imagine what her family and loved ones are going through. I did not know Mrs. Carlsen and I am so sad. I hope she is resting in peace and the detectives are able to find out what happened.

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Margaret

7:04 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012

Amber, from your post you appear quite smug and smitten with yourself. Please keep in mind that this is a forum for people to express their feelings on any given article whether one agrees or not. However, I personally agree with you that you should not waste anymore of your time reading these useless comments...

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Margaret

7:43 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012

I implore all who visits this site to keep in mind that we all have our opinions and we all have the "God" given right to express them with this open forum. It does NOT mean that anyone is right or wrong. This should not be a place for guilt tripping someone who is sharing a different point of view, or correcting them for having one. I enjoy reading the thoughts of others, as it provokes me to re-think my stance. Please keep on sharing...

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